Friday 30 January 2015

My love :)

I have seen the love of mother and father as a daughter.Love of sister with fights and hugs. The love of a mate..Yes I am experiencing it right now.A stage of transition in a girl's life from a kid/daughter/sister and now a soul mate. Phase of marriage and true love not everyone experiences. My boy is someone very special.

The love and care,The affection which made me realise I am the blissful soul on this earth.The favourite one liner which i loved when he uttered it " Nee nenachu pakartha vida enaku una naraya pudikum" the eyes where love is flowing down.The meet after a five day hectic week.Pure love which surpasses the pain of both and ofcourse i have to say this that I am the most luckiest girl on earth to experience a pure love in a society where marriage is described as lust/business between families/expectations/recognition in the society.My pure love definition has no hidden meaning. A wanting to live with each other/help each other/Protect each other last but not least, HEAL each other

A liking to spend time with each other for no reason than to just see the eyes with love, a spontaneous tear to express the discomfort when the comfort of one is lost.Wish to be the same love birds forever

Love doesn't need sense.A loss of sense and loss of presence and dreaming in a world of just two.Feel blessed o experience it with the right person

Thank God atlast for bringing something special to surpass years of turmoil
How beautifully birds and animals make love.Love is the only thing which doesn't need sixth sense. 

I want you and i want only you. I will protect you from anything like how i protect myself. You are mine ~ these 3 lines explains love in any living being.

Let go of EGO and make Love as your life and live life as dedication to your loved ones

Mother's love is Selfless
Sister Love brings growth
Father love brings confidence
Soul Mate love runs on only trust

Love gives the power to heal/share/help/protect. Make love it creates magic in you and people around you!!
U can experience the presence of God through pure love as God and love cannot be seen but felt

Pain changes ~ Positive note

Pain causes just a trigger to cry.. well it brings all the negative emotions.. a short pain may increase the hope.. an urge to come out of it soon and the moment the pain is relieved how relaxed feeling we get both in mind and body !!

Anything which brings a suffering even a small burn or cut not only a makes us cry also accompanied by a positive attitude to fight it and come out of it.

A push in the mind seeking relaxation and happiness is a natural human tendency.
But when a pain becomes chronic both physical and mental pain creates a beautiful character called ACCEPTANCE.
The fighting attitude changes into a calm acceptance and a challenge.. whatever pain is caused my happiness remain same.. the need for chase towards happiness runs away rather a feeling that inspite of pain I am what I am.A clarity in thoughts are created by a chronic pain which makes a person consider problems trivial. A problem is defined/named/labelled as a problem only by the human mind.In case of chronic discomfort.. the prefix dis may get removed and comfort remains. comfort can again be defined by different synonyms by many. a luxury is a comfort for a rich man.A one rupee coin after a long day of begging becomes a comfort for a beggar.Each and every feeling is defined/set inside the inner sub conscious mind. As the luxury grows the rich man wants more and more comfort.So even comfort is not permanent.What it is that is permanent is defining the feelings and controlling the need of those feelings and feeling contended with those.Yes.. I have got it and I have won over my pain!!

The acceptance of pain is the strong dose of pain killer one can get

Don'r run for pain killers.. its just right inside your mind!!


amma

அந்த பூமா தேவியோ பூமியை தன் தலையில் தான் சுமந்தால்
அனால் நீயோ முதலில் என்னை உன் வயிற்றில் சுமந்தாய் 
பிறகு படுக்க உன் மடியை மெத்தை ஆக்கினாய்
பிறகு தோளில் தொட்டில் கட்டி வீதி உலா வந்தாய் 
இப்பொழுதும் அன்றி எப்பொழுதும் உன் நெஞ்சில் என்னை சுமக்கிறாய் 
அவ்வபொழுது உன் கண்ணீரிலும் என்னை சுமக்கிறாய் !!

அந்த பூமி தாயோ பூகம்ப தாயானாள் அவள் பொறுமை சலனமடைந்த போதிலும் உன் பொறுமை என்றும் நீங்கா புகழ் பெற்ற பொறுமை 

இத்தனை சுமைகளையும் சுமை என்று எண்ணாமல் சுகமாக்கி கொண்டு 
என் புன்னகையில் உன் ஆனந்தத்தை காணும் தாயே !!!

சுயநலத்திற்கு அப்பாற்பட்ட தாய் உள்ளமே கோவில் !!