Pain causes just a trigger to cry.. well it brings all the negative emotions.. a short pain may increase the hope.. an urge to come out of it soon and the moment the pain is relieved how relaxed feeling we get both in mind and body !!
Anything which brings a suffering even a small burn or cut not only a makes us cry also accompanied by a positive attitude to fight it and come out of it.
A push in the mind seeking relaxation and happiness is a natural human tendency.
But when a pain becomes chronic both physical and mental pain creates a beautiful character called ACCEPTANCE.
The fighting attitude changes into a calm acceptance and a challenge.. whatever pain is caused my happiness remain same.. the need for chase towards happiness runs away rather a feeling that inspite of pain I am what I am.A clarity in thoughts are created by a chronic pain which makes a person consider problems trivial. A problem is defined/named/labelled as a problem only by the human mind.In case of chronic discomfort.. the prefix dis may get removed and comfort remains. comfort can again be defined by different synonyms by many. a luxury is a comfort for a rich man.A one rupee coin after a long day of begging becomes a comfort for a beggar.Each and every feeling is defined/set inside the inner sub conscious mind. As the luxury grows the rich man wants more and more comfort.So even comfort is not permanent.What it is that is permanent is defining the feelings and controlling the need of those feelings and feeling contended with those.Yes.. I have got it and I have won over my pain!!
The acceptance of pain is the strong dose of pain killer one can get
Don'r run for pain killers.. its just right inside your mind!!
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ReplyDeleteBrilliant. It is awesome that you have gained such a perspective about chronic pain.
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